Our history, experiences, relationships, personalities, and so much more impact the way that we each process grief, pain, and trauma. I’ve always been uncomfortable with the “I understand” or “I know how you feel” reply when people are hurting and grieving. (There are other phrases as well but that would end up a novel!) I know the intent is well-meaning, but I also know that we can never fully understand a specific person’s pain and grief. Maybe try “I’m so sorry you’re hurting. Besides praying for you, how can I support you?” #takecareofeachother #fridayfeels #justathought